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Vanessa Lee
Depression is “a state of low mood or aversion to activity that can affect a person's thoughts, behavior, feelings and physical well-being”. Statistics show that in US almost 15million adults including men and women from a wide range of age bracket suffer from depression. It is also very unfortunate that only 1/3rd of such people receive treatment for depression.

There can be several reasons behind it like:

a) Inability of the concerned person to identify the symptoms of depression,
b) Inability to afford treatment for depression,
c) Inability to accept the fact that he/she is a mental patient and needs medical help etc
To avoid a situation where negligence of patients can worsen the state of depression lets us have a quick look at the symptoms of depression

Symptoms of depression:

1. Feeling of sadness all the time
2. Inability to concentrate
3. Sudden changes in appetite which may result in loss or gain of weight
4. Inability to gain pleasure from activities one used to enjoy previously, like sports, sex etc It might also mean withdrawal from such activities
5. Change in the number of hours of sleep either an increase or decrease in it
6. Extreme cases of depression can result in suicidal or self destruction tendencies
7. Inability to see the positive side of things
8. Lack of energy in carrying out day to day activities
9. Constant feeling of guilt or self hatred
10. Frequents spells of anger or irritation

How to deal with depression?

Once the signs of depression are identified, it is now time to get treated. There are ample medicines available to deal with depression which are commonly knows as antidepressants like Sertraline, Paroxetine, Effexor etc. Regular intakes of such medicines bring in a positive change in patients. The effect is seen within a period of 2-3 weeks in case the state of depression is not chronic.

Counseling by a qualified counselor, psychiatrist can also give miraculous results. During depression counseling sessions experienced counselors try to identify the reason, for a change in behavior through cognitive behavioral therapy/psychotherapy. Based on the findings of this kind of therapy experienced counselors then suggest ways to come out of the feeling of depression

It has also been observed that group activities help in a great extent to come out of the feeling of depression .Socializing with people can make a positive difference to the state of depression. One can also opt to join a support group comprising of people with problems of depression.
Vanessa Lee
Anxiety is a normal reaction to stress for human beings. When this anxiety level reaches a limit where it interferes in the day to day to life of an individual and makes him/her incapable of performing at an optimum level then it is termed as an anxiety disorder.
The difference between anxiety and fear can be stated as, anxiety is a state of mood which might exist without any trigger or stimulus whereas for fear, there is definitely a cause or trigger behind it.

Five major types of anxiety disorder are:


1. General Compulsive Disorder
2. Obsessive compulsive Disorder
3. Panic Disorder
4. Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
5. Social Anxiety Disorder

General Compulsive disorder: It is a kind of anxiety disorder which happens because of excessive stress in normal day to day life. This can make an individual incapable of shedding off unnecessary worries or concern about regular events which matter in somebody’s life like an office presentation, a travel schedule or a family event.

Obsessive compulsive disorder: It is a kind of anxiety disorder where the concerned individual keeps thinking about an event over and over again which makes him/her anxious. To do away with this feeling of anxiety people often perform certain gestures which give them a temporary relief, like cleaning, checking, counting etc.

Panic Disorder: It is a kind of anxiety disorder where there is repeated occurrence of intense phobia attacks and the symptoms can be chest pain, breathing problems, dizziness etc

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder:
This kind of anxiety disorder is a result of exposure to an unpleasant/unwelcome incident like death of a loved one, an accident natural calamity or act like sexual abuse, physical torture etc

Social Anxiety Disorder: It is a kind of anxiety disorder where an individual becomes overtly conscious about his image in public or how he is being judged by other people. This kind of anxiety disorder has symptoms like stammering, sweating profusely blushing etc while making a public appearance or when an individual is in a social group

Treatment for Anxiety disorder:


Medicines: Medicines are a proven way to deal with anxiety but it should be taken only under the expert guidance of a doctor. Herbal drugs are also available which claim to have no side effects. These drugs have their origin in china.

Psychological counseling: Psychological counseling by qualified counselors can also give people who are suffering from anxiety, considerable amount of relief.

Physical and breathing Exercises: It is said that breathing exercises done on a regular basis along with a thorough physical fitness routine can do away with anxiety over a period of time.

The methods of treatment mentioned above can be administered in combination also (as deemed necessary by experts) to get better results.
Maui Snorkeling
Maui Snorkeling aka Friendly Charters is going GREEN !!!

We are installing Solar Panels on our boat the Lani Kai.
The Lani Kai is a catamaran and we offer daily snorkel and snuba trips
to Molokini, Turtle Town or Coral Gardens here on Maui. We
are excited about this added feature and are happy that we can contribute
to keeping this planet green. We are also involved in the Reef Clean Up and
will keep you posted on the next Reef clean up Event coming up this summer.

To stay posted on upcoming events please go to our Facebook or Twitter pages:

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Mahalo and have a great day!


Maui Snorkeling Team
http://www.mauisnorkeling.com
Mike Moore
In an ancient and far away city there lived two successful and
very competitive merchants who hated one another and were
constantly trying to better the other.

One night a messenger from God visited one of the merchants
and told him that he was instructed to grant him one wish and
one wish only.

There was only one condition attached to the granting of the
wish. Whatever the merchant wished for, his hated competitor
would receive double his wish.

The merchant pondered his decison while the messenger waited
patiently.

After a short time the merchant looked at the angel with a
slight smile on his face and said, " Make me blind in one eye."

Storytelling Tip Don't try to explain the story to your audience. Let the story speak to the listener/reader.

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Jessica
1. Take inventory of your happiness. As you list each item, evaluate what you do every day to ensure that joy remains solidly in your life. Also list things you do that jeopardize your ability to be happy. Sometimes we are our own worst enemies and don't even know it.

2. Be accountable to yourself. Every time you say "just a minute while I finish these e-mails" and you end up missing dinner with your spouse, understand you chose to stay "plugged in" to the business. It doesn't control you...you control your choices.

3. Practice, zen moments. Get centered and put down that electronic device.

4. Laugh at the small stuff that gives you stress. A young lady in shorts, sitting next to me at the airport terminal, was the recent victim of a walk-by sneezing. Another passenger inadvertently spit on her leg in his convulsion. He ambled on oblivious. She, however, quietly dug in her purse and pulled out a tissue. She wiped her leg, careful to shield her actions from others... Except I caught her eye and we both howled with laughter. Bless her heart, she showed class in an awkward situation and exemplified the statement "Stuff happens...deal with it!"

5. Learn to tell people that you are business by saying "NO" with love and affection. Only you know what your priorities and life goals are. Evaluate what others ask you to do, and then determine your response in terms of how it interfaces with your plans.

6. Its time for self-reflection. Sometimes a mirror held up before us can tell us more than what our mind eye chooses to rationalize. It may not be pretty, but at least you will have an honest starting point on which to make your lifestyle decisions.

7. Measure twice, cut once and do it right the first time. Quite frequently I consult with clients who feel like the rats in the race are winning. They are overwhelmed by the volume of work they deal with so they do the same tasks over and over again. My advice is simple - slow down and check twice. Not a bad motto to live by.

8. Are you overconnected? Using email exclusively only broadens the distance between us and our clients. Find ways to make your contact personal. A warm voice over the phone or a quick face to face visit can go a long way to cement a relationship. I've learned that it's the eyes, body language, and tone of voice that speaks volumes – imparting information that e-mail could never provide.